Kay L. (Proctor) Elder

Born: Tue., Aug. 10, 1937
Died: Tue., Sep. 7, 2021


Visitation

2:00 PM to 3:00 PM, Fri., Sep. 10, 2021
Location: Nelson Funeral Home & Cremation Services


Funeral Service

3:00 PM Fri., Sep. 10, 2021
Location: Nelson Funeral Home & Cremation Services


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Kay L. Elder, 84, formerly of Chandlers Valley, passed away September 7, 2021 at Heritage Village in Gerry, NY.
Kay was born August 10, 1937 to the late Homer Proctor and Clara Hilliker Proctor Mitchell. She worked at Warren General Hospital for several years in the dietary department.  She enjoyed camping, sewing, knitting, ceramics and loved spending time with her family and friends.

Kay is survived by her children, Valerie (Tim) Hays of Gerry, NY, Bruce (Lisa) Elder of Sugar Grove, Jeffrey Nelson and companion Kathie Liffner, a brother, Albert (Mary Jane) Proctor of Lakewood, a daughter-in-law, Beth (Jim) Barnes, a sister-in-law Sylvia Proctor, grandchildren, Brianna (Guy) Meek, Garrett Nelson and companion Pamela Colon, Courtney Hays, Hobart Sanders and companion Katherine Little, Joshua (Shauna) Sanders, Kyle “Sy” Sanders, Crystal Surdyk, Holly Snyder and Marcie (Mike) Brown, several great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, Kay was preceded in death by her husband, Eugene Elder, whom she married on March 25, 1963, her siblings, Floyd Proctor, Audrey Hamilton, Carol Hallgren and Anna Hildum, a step-son Gerald Elder, a grandson Eric Sanders, a niece Becky Paloncy and a nephew Craig Hildum.

The funeral service will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Friday, September 10th at the Nelson Funeral Home & Cremation Services in Youngsville. Due to COVID, the family would like to receive relatives only one hour prior, from 2:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. Burial will be in the Chandlers Valley Cemetery.

Condolences to the family may be made at www.nelsonfuneralhome.net.

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Geary Anderson
   Posted Wed September 08, 2021
So sorry for your loss Moose. She is resting peacefully now. Our thoughts are with you friend.

Donna and Connie
   Posted Wed September 08, 2021
Many fond memories, always enjoyed our visits through the years!

Peg Stino
   Posted Wed September 08, 2021
So sorry to hear about Kay's passing, she was a wonderful gal who I always enjoyed talking too! Prayers for the family!

Joyce & Theresa
   Posted Wed September 08, 2021
So sorry to hear about aunt kay's passing. Your in are thoughts and prayers.

Erma (Jeannie) Blystone
   Posted Wed September 08, 2021
So sorry about Kay passing. She was such a sweetheart and so much fun to be around! Her and Mom had alot of good times together! Love you all!

Ron and Tammy Snyder
   Posted Wed September 08, 2021
So sorry to hear of Kays passing. Such fond memories of her and my mom Bert, especially at our BMA/Softball games.
She was a wonderful lady.

Cindy Finzel
   Posted Thu September 09, 2021
I worked with your mom for several years at Warren General. She's one of the nicest people! Her crafting was superior. She made me a ceramic Christmas tree, which I cherished for many, many years. She will be missed.

Sheryl Sudul
   Posted Thu September 09, 2021

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Sheryl Sudul
   Posted Thu September 09, 2021
Kay was a dear friend. A hard worker who loved her family and friends. I will hold her memory close to my heart. Rest in Peace Kay.

Luanne Elder
   Posted Thu September 09, 2021
So very sorry you've lost your sweet mom. RIP Aunt Kay.
Love & Hugs. Luanne & Cousin Jeremy

Sherry (Peterson) paddock
   Posted Fri September 10, 2021
So sorry to learn of your mother's passing. Rest in peace my friend kay. Valerie and family thinking of you at this time. Remembering all the good times our family have shared together.

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